Yes—it’s real, and yes—you can learn it. A non-ejaculatory orgasm is not only possible, it’s a powerful way to master your body and take full control of your sex life. In this post, we break down the difference between orgasm and ejaculation, and reveal two proven methods to experience the pleasure of orgasm without the mess or refractory period.
Orgasm vs. Ejaculation: What’s the Difference?
Before diving into the methods, it’s key to understand the distinction:
- Ejaculation: The release of semen from the penis.
- Orgasm: A full-body experience triggered by a brain chemical release (mainly prolactin) that causes muscle spasms, pleasure, and the refractory period.
Most men think these two always go together—but you can separate them with the right technique.
Method 1: The Professional (Hard) Way
This technique involves training your PC muscle (pelvic floor) to such a degree that you can flex and hold it during orgasm, effectively stopping the ejaculate from leaving your body.
How to Train:
- Practice kegels—clench the muscle you’d use to stop peeing.
- Gradually build strength and endurance over weeks or months.
- At the moment of climax, apply maximum pressure to hold back ejaculation.
Warning: This method takes consistent training and control. But once mastered, it unlocks unmatched sexual stamina and confidence.
Method 2: The Cheater’s (Easy) Way
This is a physical biohack that blocks ejaculation using direct pressure.
How It Works:
- As you climax, press firmly on the perineum (the area between your balls and anus—also called the gooch).
- This pressure collapses the ejaculatory tube, preventing semen release while still allowing the orgasmic wave to occur.
Think of it like stepping on a garden hose to stop water flow.
It’s fast, effective, and surprisingly easy—but it’s not without risks if overused.
Important Caution
Don’t do this every time. Consistently blocking ejaculation may lead to discomfort or even urinary tract infections due to fluid buildup. Use it like a cool trick or in rare “emergency” scenarios (e.g., if you didn’t wear a condom and want a last-resort backup).
Emergency Pregnancy Brake?
Yes, the “gooch press” has been nicknamed the Emergency Pregnancy Brake. It’s not a reliable contraceptive method—but in a pinch, it might help reduce the risk. Just don’t make it your go-to solution.
