Want to be a master at foreplay? In this post, I’m breaking down four powerful foreplay techniques that you can implement tonight to take your bedroom game to the next level. Stick around for the final tip—it’s the most impactful and guaranteed to get her engine revving.
Tip 1: Be the One Who Breaks Off the Kiss
Right at the start of intimacy, when you’re both making out, be the one to break the kiss first. This simple act flips the dynamic. When she’s enjoying the moment and you pull away, it creates a space for her to chase you and re-engage. That element of pursuit builds tension—and that’s where the magic begins.
Tip 2: Master Neck Kisses & Nibbles
We’re not talking about teenage hickeys. True lovers know how to use neck kisses and gentle nibbles with finesse—no marks, just sensation. Focus on the nape and the traps. Apply subtle pressure with your lips and teeth, paying close attention to her reactions. These are sensitive erogenous zones, and when stimulated correctly, they heighten anticipation and arousal.
Tip 3: Guide Her Hand
While things are heating up, guide her hand and place it on your erection—whether you’re clothed or not. This assertive yet inviting move leads her through the experience, encouraging her to indulge her desires and feel your excitement. It’s a mix of leadership and erotic invitation that intensifies connection.
Tip 4: Playful Dominance—Throw Her on the Bed
This tip brings romance-movie passion to life. In a playful and consensual way, pick her up or toss her gently onto the bed. It’s a bold move that signals physical dominance and confidence. Ironically, this act of taking the lead makes many women feel even more secure. She’ll trust you to take control—and that trust opens the door to deeper intimacy.
Want to Take It Further?
Once you’ve nailed the foreplay, try one of these exciting roleplay scenarios I cover in this video to keep things fresh and adventurous.
