FROM SHY NERD TO THE
WORLD’S #1 SEX COACH
My journey has given me the experience needed to become an effective teacher
of sex & intimacy – producing life changing results for my students.
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Growing up in a small Australian country town, the only beautiful women I saw were on the internet (if you get what I mean).
Take my lack of experience with women combined with my crippling shyness, and it’s no surprise my first girlfriend of 4 years cheated on me with my best friend at the time.
After a decade of living a “normal” life, working as bartender, a pharmaceutical research chemist and finally running a health food business, I eventually turned my love of beautiful women into a career.
Despite the backlash I decided to no longer care what other people thought of me and my inquisitiveness led me down my path as a swinger, high-class male escort, and then award-winning pornstar.
And while it was fun, I’m now committed to more meaningful pursuits.
Since retiring from the porn industry in 2020, I’ve taken all my years of high-pressure professional experience and used it to help men just like you achieve mastery in the bedroom, regain their confidence and have fulfilling relationships.
I’ve helped men grow their penis, last as long as they want in bed, overcome bedroom nerves and erectile dysfunction, get laid and of course, blow women’s minds in bed – bringing out their best side in the relationship — happy, loyal, feminine and submissive.
I now speak on some of the biggest platforms in the world and my YouTube channel gains millions of views every month. It’s an honor to have what I teach impact so many men’s lives while also saving countless relationships and marriages by reigniting their passion for one another like never before.
The Extraordinary Journey
FROM PHARMACEUTICAL CHEMIST TO ADULT STAR TO WORLDS #1 SEX COACH
1987
Stirling was born in Western Australia to a working class family.
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2004
He graduated from high school top of his class and was awarded Dux (that's valedictorian for all you Americans).
2005
With a passion for science, Stirling went into University and got an Honors Degree in Chemistry. He was also a published scientific author before even graduating, having one of his research projects published in the Journal of Materials Chemistry
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2009
Upon graduating, he began working as a pharmaceutical research chemist for a nanotechnology company. In the evenings Stirling got involved in the pick-up scene in Perth and started learning social dynamics and how to attract women.
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2010
Stirling broke into the swinger scene as a single guy and started learning to “perform under pressure” at parties.
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2011
Stirling transitioned into working in Oil & Gas as a quality control chemist.
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2012
Stirling was accepted into the Blacksmith Liberty & Entrepreneurship camp where he was mentored by the likes of Simon Black & Craig Ballantyne.
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2013
Stirling started his first business, an underwear line, off the back of a successful kickstarter campaign. The business however was not successful and was wound down a year later.
2014
He started a Paleo meal delivery business and within 3 years it was pulling in over half a million a year in revenue.
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2015
Stirling began working as a high-class straight male escort, where his clients ranged from wealthy business women, to couples who wanted a live cuckolding experience, and other female escorts who wanted a “night off”.
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2017
After selling his meal delivery business Stirling began his Adult Film career doing a few shoots with a small studio in Melbourne, Australia. He then moved to England and broke into the UK Adult Film industry.
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2018
Stirling shot his first scene for the world famous brand Brazzers and shortly after got flown out to start working in the European industry and began shooting in Prague, Budapest and Vienna.
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2019
Stirling relocated to Los Angeles where his big break came after shooting with the BDSM site Kink. His work amassed millions of views and he became one of the top performing male “talents” with multiple award nominations in his first year shooting in the USA.
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2020
Stirling won the 2020 XRCO Awards title award for “Best New Male Stud”. His complete Adult Film repertoire and nominations list can be found here.
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2020-present
Stirling retired from the adult industry and started his YouTube channel teaching hundreds of thousands of men around the world how to achieve bedroom mastery, regain their confidence and have fulfilling relationships.
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Stirling In The Media
Events - Appearances - Features
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Speaking Engagements
- Rule Zero Live 2020
- Conference of Masculine Excellence 2021
- Masculine Empowerment Network 2021
- Conference of Masculine Excellence 2022
- Masculine Empowerment Network 2022
- Hybrid Entrepreneur Summit 2023
- Mike Thurston Mastermind Summit 2023
Guest APPEARANCES
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Fresh & Fit
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Just Pearly Things
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Whatever Podcast
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Bulldog Mindset
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First Things THRST
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How to Beast
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Rob Lipsett
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Sarah Dawn Moore
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Marni Wing Girl
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Access Vegas
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Strike It Big
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Brandon Carter
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Valuetainment
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Dr. Wendy Walsh
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Axel Axe
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Entrepreneurs in Cars
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ManTalks
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Mike Thurston
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Rational Male
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Digital Social Hour
News Articles
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