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How to Be a Great Kisser (That She’ll Brag About)

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How to Be a Great Kisser (That She’ll Brag About)

Mastering the Art of the First Kiss with Confidence & Style

Intro: Kissing Matters More Than You Think

Let’s be real: nobody likes a bad kisser—and yes, women absolutely judge you on how good you are at it.

In this guide, I’ll walk you through the key do’s and don’ts of kissing so you not only avoid common mistakes but also become the kind of guy women brag about kissing.

I’m Dylan Cooper—award-winning adult film star and former high-class male companion—and I’m here to help you transform your intimacy game from average to unforgettable.

Step 1: First Impressions Matter

The first kiss is a defining moment—it sets the tone. If you hesitate, act unsure, or wait too long, you lose momentum and attraction.

✅ What to do:
Approach the kiss confidently. Be the man. Lead. She wants someone who takes initiative, not someone who asks, “Can I kiss you?”

How to Know She’s Receptive:

Try triangular gazing—look from one eye to the other, then down to her lips. If she maintains eye contact and leans in, chances are she’s waiting for you to make your move.

Step 2: Use Body Language to Build Anticipation

Confidence isn’t just verbal—it’s physical.

🖐️ What works:

Gently place your hand on the back of her neck, or run your fingers through her hair as you move in.
Lightly touch her chin and guide her in—this builds tension and chemistry.
Match her energy, but lead the movement.

This small physical escalation makes the moment smoother, more intimate, and a whole lot sexier.

Step 3: Make It Passionate, Not Platonic

🛑 Don’t just peck her lips like it’s a polite greeting. That’s not memorable.
🔥 Your first kiss should be charged with intent—not aggressive, but undeniably passionate.

Show her you’re a man who knows what he wants. Own the kiss.

Step 4: Kiss With Variety

Let’s talk technique.

✅ Mix things up:

Use some tongue, but not too much.
Suck gently on her lower lip when breaking away or re-engaging.
Alternate between:
- Full, sensual lip kisses
- Light tongue play
- Lip sucking

This kind of variety keeps things exciting and engaging.

⚠️ Avoid this:
Don’t kiss like a teenager—wide mouth, overly wet, or shoving your tongue down her throat. That’s eager, not attractive.

Step 5: Don’t Open Your Mouth Too Wide

Keep it sensual, not sloppy. You don’t need your entire mouth open to show passion.

In fact, kissing subtly—especially in public—makes it feel more intimate without drawing awkward attention.

Step 6: Break the Kiss Off First

One of the most powerful moves you can make? Be the one to pull away first.

Why?

Because most guys do the opposite—they chase the kiss, hold it too long, and come off needy. If you’re the one who breaks it off, you flip the power dynamic.

Watch her lean in wanting more.

Step 7: Say Something Playful After the Kiss

Now for the cherry on top: calling it out with charm.

Try saying:

“I was wondering what that was going to be like.”
“I was curious what you tasted like.”
Or if she asks how it was: “I think I’ll need a bigger sample size to be sure.”

This shows wit, confidence, and emotional intelligence—all very attractive traits.